April 25, 2016

Weekending it

This weekend we didn't have any commitments or plans so we were able to get some things accomplished and still have time to relax.  When I got home from work on Friday night Dan had set-up the dining room table all romantic.


We were just having our typical Friday night pizza but he made it sweet with candles and wine glasses (we never use these wine glasses).  We spent the rest of the night watching episodes of The Walking Dead.  We are hooked on the show and yet I am still terrified of it.  I've had a long fear of being the only one left of my family still alive in a post apocalyptic type of situation so the premise of the show makes me uncomfortable.  And yet we keep watching it... 

Saturday morning we slept-in and lounged in bed with donuts before getting around and heading over to the quasi-mall in our area.  Dan got fitted for a tux for his brother's wedding in October while I spent a penny at Bath and Body Works.  That place gets me every time.  We browsed around Target for a bit and then I took Dan to try Vietnamese sandwiches for lunch.  I used to get them frequently when my friend lived in Park Slope.  Since it was a nice day we walked over to the restaurant and had a nice lunch date.

On Sunday we were able to get home early from church and do laundry and start sorting and packing things in the spare bedroom.  We emptied the bookshelf and peeled all the sticker decals off the wall which was actually quite easy.  Since we were productive rather than lazy (our typical Sunday vibe) we walked to get some frozen yogurt and got some new sneakers for Dan.  We also browsed around for a couch.  We are in the market for a real couch for the new apartment.  Neither of us have ever owned a couch - just futons posing as couches.   This is the one we liked, minus all the pillows. 


Have any of you seen Little Big Shots?  We've caught a few episodes and it is SO cute.  It's on Sunday nights on NBC.  Steve Harvey is so great with all the kids and makes it really funny and sweet.  Watch it!

This week looks to be pretty uneventful which I am grateful for.  It's Spring Break for the public schools (I know, super late right?) and so the Subways are pretty empty in the morning which is a nice treat. 

April 22, 2016

Peeks from the Week

Friday already!!! We had a nice break in the middle of the work week which definitely helped speed the week along.  We've been far too busy lately so a no-commitment Saturday sounds really nice.

Wishing...there was a holiday in April for a free day off

Hoping...I can get my act together this weekend and catch-up with meal planning and grocery shopping.  Lunches are getting really pathetic lately. 

Thinking...I should investigate making freezer meals

Praying...Dan is able to get everything arranged and settled for his sabbatical so he can really check out for awhile.  Just a few more weeks!

Planning...on sorting through everything in the spare room this weekend to start getting ready for the move.  I want to take this as an opportunity to purge a lot of junk.

Dreaming...about carefree days of summer.


This week Dan and I took a day and a half off from work and hopped on a bus to Philadelphia.  My good friend, Stephanie, was defending her doctoral dissertation on Wednesday at the University of Delaware and we wanted to go and support her.

Taking a bus to Philly is super easy and super cheap (2 hours, $20 total for both of us round trip)
 
Stephanie and I have known each other since undergrad when we were the famous Stephanies of the History Department at Cornell College.  She was a year ahead of me and gave me a lot of advise when I was applying for the extra history scholars programs our advisor encouraged us to pursue.  She and I had several classes together and we even lived together for a month in downtown Chicago during an off-campus class.

When I moved to New York and she was in Delaware she started coming to visit.  We've toured the city and seen lots of shows.  She even came out to help us host our local reception after the wedding.   Most recently she came to visit in the fall and we did apple picking.




We've stayed in touch really well and I've been hearing about her dissertation for years.  So when it came time for her to defend, Dan and I jumped to attend.  Neither of us had seen a defense and were pretty curious.  We met her in Philly, where she works and recently moved, and had a nice dinner of Vietnamese food.  The next morning we all got up early and she drove over to Delaware.  It was both Dan and my first time in that state.  Stephanie did a great job introducing her dissertation and fielding questions from her committee members.  She passed with no revisions and is now officially a PhD scholar in history!!! So proud of her.


We celebrated at lunch with some of her colleagues and then she treated us to a visit to Longwood Gardens.  It was a beautiful botanic garden that was in full bloom when we visited and the weather was perfect. 















I took a lot more photos but I feel like I've dumped enough here.  We had fun.

Happy weekend!

April 19, 2016

Breakneck

I'm a Colorado kid so I like to think I have some outdoorsy blood in me.  I've even climbed a 14ener with my Dad and sister.  That's a peak 14,000 ft above sea level.  That was a drama-filled day. 


I've gone camping many times and I've done a relative amount of hiking.  I've tried bouldering and even done rock climbing walls.  Here we are at a place in Brooklyn back in 2010 with small group.  This was before Dan and I were dating.   But oooh did I have a crush on him.



Anyways, sorry for the sidetrack.  All that's to say, we aren't total amateurs but we definitely were not remotely prepared for the the most dangerous day-venture we've ever had. 

Remember on Friday when I said I was hoping the three mile hike we had planned for the weekend wouldn't be a beast?  Well, it was.  In fact it was a monster that ate a beast.  It was by far the most physically difficult thing I have ever done. Ever.  

My friend Nicole, from my grad school days, invited Dan and me and several other people to join her on a day trip upstate to Beacon NY to hike a trail her friend told her about.  That hike was up Mt. Beacon and it was supposed to be about a 3 hour round trip hike with a Fire Tower at the top.  I didn't register the name of the hike in my brain I just knew it was supposed to start with a metal staircase (that's what I read online).  Well, when we got off the train at 10:30 am, we just followed the 100 some odd other people walking along the road and entered this:


See that little note at the top?  "Breakneck ridge is a steep rock scramble that is for experienced hikers in excellent physical condition only.  You are about to about to ascend 1,240 feet in only 3/4 of a mile."

Yeah, I was intimidated by the sign but my friend's friend said the hike was doable and we all assumed it was still a 3 mile hike and there were seriously 100 other people walking up the trail and none of them seemed like professional rock climbers.  So we followed.  And also, what does 1,240 feet in only 3/4 of a mile really mean?  We didn't think it through and we paid for that choice.

That sign was seriously no joke.  I looked it up later, this trail is labeled the most strenuous trail in the Eastern Hudson Highlands. People have died here.


The pictures don't even do it justice, it felt like a nearly vertical climb and it wasn't a hike it was literally rock climbing without a harness.  I mean grabbing onto giant rocks and hoisting your body up fully aware of the sheer cliff you were hanging off.  I was terrified and we all admitted that when we got to the first overlook.  The trail was called Breakneck Trail and the name pretty much explains why.  If you fall, you will surely break your neck and die.



Despite the terror, we had a few things working in our favor: 
1) The weather was perfect.  Sunny with a cool breeze. And hardly any bugs. 
2) We were all clueless.  Had we known what the day would hold we never would have started. Once you're in, you can't go back. 
3) All the vegetation was still bare.  There were no leaves on the trees and no brush.  It made the view a little less lovely (everything was brown) but that really helped during the hike because we didn't get scrapped up and covered in poison ivy. 




Dan led the way up the rock scramble and we rejoiced when we got to the first overlook.  There were two more passes of similar climbing difficulty but the "you're going to fall off of a cliff feeling" wasn't quite as intense.  At one point there was a turn in the trail that would have taken us back down the mountain quickly but Nicole really wanted to see the fire tower and we all assumed it couldn't be that much farther so we went along in that direction.  None of us knew how much farther away that actually was, including Nicole.  We stopped for lunch around 12:30 and then kept forging ahead.




On the same trail that day there was a marathon race happening.  Yes, you read that right.  Some group of thrill seekers were actually running that trail.  Running.  It was so crazy dangerous I can't even understand why anyone would ever want to do that but we kept having to stop mid-climb to let these people pass.  We were climbing up as they were running down.

And then finally, salvation. 



I'll admit, by the time we got to that stupid fire tower I was mad.  We had gone nearly 7 miles and my feet were blistered and my knees were shot.  The distance doesn't sound like much but when 90% of it requires upper and lower body strength it's a different story.  Since we had hiked all the way to the Fire Tower we had to climb the stairs.  It was terrifying.  This is me and Nicole at the top.




Even though we reached our destination we still had a mile and a half left back down the mountain into the town of Beacon.  It was super steep so no easy task after what we had already done.  Turns out, the hike down from the tower was the original trail we should have started on.  We had done everything in reverse and added the rock climbing at the beginning as a cruel starting point.  We had done Breakneck Trail AND Mt. Beacon. Lesson learned, don't assume someone else knows what they're doing. And, get a map you understand.


When we reached Beacon it was after 4:30 pm.  We had been hiking since 10:30 that morning and we had to walk another hour through town to get to the train home.  The original plan was to get dinner in the town but we couldn't find a place that didn't have a long wait or wasn't cash only so we scrapped that plan and just crashed on the train.  We got back to Grand Central after 7 pm a total of 11 miles later (according to a friend's fitbit - that was 30,000 steps).  We hadn't used the restroom since before 8 am that morning and had not consumed near enough water.  So Dan and I treated ourselves to double burgers and fries at Shake Shack before getting on the subway and heading home.

You guys, I'm a naturally anxious person.  If something can go wrong, trust me I thought about it.  Many many times during the day I thought we were going to die or someone was going to get seriously hurt.  Dan and I were not in shape to even hike 3 miles of any great difficulty let alone 11, but we did it and we're still standing, albeit extremely sore.  And after all of it I'm ever more grateful that God was watching over us and that He blessed me with Dan's company for the day and for the journey of life ahead.  When I was beyond done with the day and we still had so much left to go, he encouraged me, helped me, and kept me moving forward.  He put up with four girls all day long and never complained once and I think he even had a little fun.  It was certainly a day we will not soon forget. 

For Terri Mom and my mom...as a reference, this area is one stop farther on the train past Cold Springs and Boscobel.  

April 18, 2016

Weekending It

Phew.  We survived the weekend and that's not just a figure of speech.  I'll share about our upstate hike experience tomorrow because it was a whole big thing.  For now, the rest of the weekend.

On Friday night Dan and I had the youth group video game night at the church office.  We haven't done one of these in years and we have a group of teens that have never experienced one before.  It's a small office, so we improvise with bed sheets.




It was a great turnout.  Our other youth leader, Lindsey, made these amazing Nintendo controller rice krispie treats.  Aren't they amazing?!  She is awesome. 



Saturday morning we woke up extra early and headed into the city to take a train upstate for a day hike.  Come back tomorrow to hear about that.  Since I'm posting this you know we survived. Barely.

Sunday we didn't get back home from church stuff until after 3:30 but we somehow managed to squeeze in some spring shopping, got 11 loads of laundry done...yes, 11, and I got hot dinner on the table thanks to those freezer meatballs we made last month.  We also started watching "The Walking Dead."  It's terrifying.  Absolute horror.

Today I got my five years of service lapel pin at work.  I was way more excited than necessary.  I can't believe I've been working here for five years.  Feels like way longer and yet way shorter at the same time.


We head over to Philly tomorrow afternoon for a quick trip to celebrate and support my friend defending her dissertation on Wednesday.

Happy late afternoon Monday!

April 15, 2016

Peeks from the Week

Side story to start.  Back when my mom turned 50 we had a big party in our backyard to celebrate.  My dad convinced me that I should do a surprise violin duet at the party with my teacher.  I agreed, practiced, and was ready.  Right before the party started we told my mom.  She was excited and happy and asked me "are you nervous?" I said no, and she said "really? I would be."  And then I was.  I psyched myself out and got super scared and cried for like 10 minutes.  Somewhere there is a photograph of me and my teacher performing and I have a puffy post-cry face.  Ugh.

Moral of the story...I'm cool until someone else makes a big deal and then I doubt myself.

This week I was tagged to give a small presentation this morning about the big project I am managing.  No big deal, I'm confident in the project and I can communicate clearly.  Yeah, the meeting was in front of the museum office staff but I was fine.  Then like five different people come up to me and say "I heard your presenting.  Are you nervous.  Are you ready?"  Well, I was.  Can you stop talking to me now?  

Anyways, I presented.  It was fine.  The world keeps turning.  But for a hot second I was worried I would look like 8th grade me, red-eyed and puffy-faced in front of all my colleagues.

Every day is a series of moments to survive.


Big week this week.  I met-up with a friend on Tuesday night and we took a two hour macaroon class.  It was a lot of fun and the whole process felt really simple in the bakery.  However, I'm not sure I'm brave enough to try it at home.  We made three flavors: birthday cake, raspberry, and chocolate.




On Wednesday night Dan and I signed a lease for a new apartment.  It's the one we looked at on Sunday and I mentioned in my post on Monday.  We were both slightly worried we were being scammed (because nothing is that easy) but I recorded the entire transaction (for evidence) and everything has checked-out fine so far.  We don't get the keys until end of May since the current tenants are still living there, but we're excited and super happy we found something so quickly.  I'm hopeful it will be a good fit for us and a nice fresh start. 

Tonight is Video Game night with the youth group and tomorrow Dan and I are headed upstate to go hiking for the day.  Spring weather has returned!

Wishing...I had some spare time to go spring clothes shopping

Hoping...the rest of the day flies

Thinking...about more sleep. always

Praying...this five mile hike tomorrow isn't a beast

Planning...what furniture we can fit in the new place and what stuff we'll have to get rid of

Dreaming...of paint colors and decorating a new home