BUT, I am also an archivist and I have always treasured the value of small mementos that when saved bring back big memories. So that's why I always kept a shoe box under my bed as a kid and why I have photo boxes on my shelves now. They are neat and tidy but packed with a punch of laughs and tears and whatever my third-grade self found important to keep.
Now I have a little box dedicated especially for things and moments shared by just Dan and me. That's where you'll find treasures like this:
And what you are seeing here are just the ones I have photos of! I always wanted to be that little old lady with boxes of love notes that my grand kids could look at someday.
When I was in college I did an oral history with an elderly woman for a project about WWII. She had hundreds of letters saved from her husband when he was off at war. They were so beautifully tied up in ribbon and wrapped in tissue. I thought it was so neat and so romantic and such a genuine display of love. In that moment I secretly hoped to have my own collection some day! And while my box is filling up with post-its and scrap paper, they are still full of just as much love.
The best part about these little notes and all the others I have stored away is that I never asked for any of them. Just random tiny treasures that make my heart smile.
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